If you're complaining and/or blaming within your situation, then
you're in victim-mentality mode. This means you've given someone or
something in your scenario total power over your advancement or
happiness based on a limiting belief that you either created for
yourself, or you borrowed it from someone else (your parents said, your
friends said, the news said, your boss said, etc.), and are now fully
subscribing
to it. This is why you're suffering. As soon as you take yourself out of
victim mode and take full responsibility for your circumstances, your
situation will change. It's never
"them"; it's always you. Always. You don't have to like or believe it. I
didn't make up the rule. It's just how the Universe turns; and no
matter who you are, you can't escape this key element in life.
This doesn't mean that "they" who are doing "stuff" are excused from
their negligent behavior, and it doesn't mean you don't have the right to request different behavior. What it does mean is that when all is said and done, you don't get to control how they
function, no matter how hard you wish or try. So let go of that notion,
stop waiting for them to change to make you feel better, and take back
your power by focusing on how you're gonna function to create your own
change.
If your limiting belief is wrapped up in a thing instead
of a person or people, then your job is still the same: to take back
your power by choosing a new way of reacting to it other than complaint
and blame, one that has the potential to create a valuable solution.
Are you ready to change? If so, then let's talk about how I can help you. I invite you to visit HONOR THE SPIRIT, to sign up for a free 20-minute Intention and Energy Assessment, which
will prep you for a Life Challenge Consultation, where I'll guide you
through the darkness of your scenario to a place of light.
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