Through my various writings, poetry performances, and consultations
(life challenge, life mission, and creative), I help people build strong
self-esteem by implementing the courage to pursue their best interest
at all times.
As someone who used to suffer from
terribly low self-esteem, I set myself up for a lot of heartache,
torment, and exhausting crying because I was too afraid to believe in
and stand up for myself. What I've learned over the years is that
without a strong sense of worth, people will tend to make a lot of
unhealthy decisions that usually adversely affect their lives ... and
sometimes the lives of others. High morale completely changes the way
you navigate all the scenarios in your life, particularly the difficult
ones. When you genuinely care about your well-being and peace of mind,
you commit to choosing YOU in all the best ways possible, even if it
means you inconvenience people who want you to choose them.
When
I started choosing me, I started feeling like I was truly valuable and
special, and that's because I was finally treating myself like I was.
That's when I knew for sure that the key to inner transformation that
reflects an outer change starts with how you feel about yourself. My
self-esteem journey is ongoing. I'm not exempt from it being shaken just
because I've come a long way in its development. I've spent entire days
trying to bounce back from incidents that shake it hard. But I always
bounce back because I make feeling good about myself a priority,
so I push my way through until I arrive back at a healthy mindset. I
have to do my work in order to get my results. This stuff isn't easy all
the time just because I know how to do it.
People who didn't know the old me--the childhood, teenage, and 20s and early 30s me, who compliment me on how confident I am, have NO
idea what I've had to endure spiritually to get here. Some of my closest
friends don't even know because a lot of my transformation took place
after I moved to LA from the Bay Area 12 years ago, and I haven't spoken
in depth or at all about the myriad lessons I've learned since that
time. What I did was stay quiet, buckle down, and get to work on
changing because the pain was overwhelming and I wanted to conquer it at
the root. In the process, I've been using my words, both written and
spoken, to not only tell my stories bit by bit, but also encourage
others to do their work, so they can see how great it feels to honor
themselves. I want that for everyone; it's a priceless feeling.
If you wanna transform, then I wanna help you do it. I'm right here,
with many ways to offer assistance, if you decide you're worth it.
For information about my consulting services and self-help books, please click here.
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