If you desire scenario A but you currently have scenario B, it's because
some part or all of scenario B is where your priority lies. Your top
priority will always win out over all other desires, no matter how badly
you say you want them. There's something in that scenario that is so important to you that you won't leave it.
A word of caution: sometimes the scenario you're holding on to may not
be something that's bringing you true joy and peace of mind. You may not
be creating value from it, and it may not be adding to the enrichment
of your life and the lives of others. Rather, you may be holding on out
of fear of what your life will be like without it—that you won’t be able
to handle your life without it. Maybe you're afraid to make a
change for the better because you think "better" may not arrive for a
really long time. Maybe you think there's nothing better; but if there
is, maybe you don't think you deserve it. Maybe you're holding on to
save face (everyone's watching you, already judging; you can't let them
see you fail; this has to work!). Or, you may be accustomed to a
certain feeling or status you get from your priority that you're not
ready to part with. Priorities and how they serve us are not always
healthy, but they're all-powerful, nonetheless. And if you’re holding on
out of fear and you can’t seem to muster the courage to let go, then
you can end up feeling trapped and hopeless.
Sometimes, there's something in your scenario that is truly
valuable and fulfilling for your soul, so even though there's discomfort
in other areas of the situation, possibly even a little unhappiness,
you deal with it because you have more peace of mind than you do misery.
However, if you're dealing with it negatively, then you'll be unable to
move toward a better outcome. In order to transform these types of
scenarios, you'll need to shift your energy from complaint and
resentment to a place of acceptance (of your reality and the fact that
you're choosing it), appreciation (for the fact that this scenario
allows you to do or have this great thing), and proactive reactions to
your circumstances and the people in it, instead of negative ones.
Learning how to move through the discomfort in this way will eventually
open the door for either complete changes within the scenario that will
yield you the full peace you desire, or a new scenario that will deliver
it. But unless you change your attitude and perception about the
situation, things will stay the same, and possibly get worse.
Take a look at the situations you’re in that you’re having difficulty
with, that you say you wanna be done with, but month after month, year
after year, there you are, still enduring the challenges. Really go deep
within yourself while looking carefully at every aspect of the
situation(s), and pinpoint what’s keeping you there. Because the bottom
line is, you have choices. You’re not actually trapped. You can move on,
pursue another path, free yourself from all the hardship. But
something’s got hold of you, something you either really don’t wanna
give up because it’s serving you in a good way, or you’re afraid of the
consequences you think await you if you leave. What is it? Once you get honest and clear about what your true priority
is, and why, you'll be able to navigate your circumstances in a way
that will manifest the best outcome for all involved.
Are
you ready to get with me and tackle your challenges through a
one-on-one consultation? If so, then I invite you to visit my site and
set up a free assessment so we can determine if we're a good fit.
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